KB ID 0000891 Dtd 04/12/13
There a a few more hoops to jump through to allow a host to relay though Exchange 2013. For earlier versions of Exchange see the links below.
How to create a 'Relay' Receive Connector
1. Connect to the Exchange admin center > Mail flow > receive connectors > Add.
2. Give the connector a name (take note of it, you will need it in a minute) > Select 'Frontend Transport' > Custom > Next.
4. REMOVE the 0.0.0.0-255.255.255.255 range. (WARNING: If you do not do this you will become an open relay).
5. Add in the IP address of the host (from which you want to allow relaying) > Save.
6. Open the properties of the connector you just created > Security > Under Authentication select 'Externally Secured (for example with IPSEC) > Under Permission groups, select 'Exchange servers' and 'Anonymous users' > Save.
7. At this point, you may find that when you test from the host you get the following error;
421 4.4.1 Connection timed out
I would suggest you change some parameters of the receive connector. Execute the following PowerShell command;
Get-ReceiveConnector -Identity âRelay-Connector-Nameâ | Set-ReceiveConnector -TarpitInterval 00:00:00 -ConnectionTimeout 00:30:00 -ConnectionInactivityTimeout 00:20:00 -MaxAcknowledgementDelay 00:00:00 -MaxInboundConnection 10000 -MaxInboundConnectionPercentagePerSource 100 -MaxInboundConnectionPerSource unlimited
8. Restart the Microsoft Exchange Transport Service on the Exchange server.
Exchange 2013 - Test Email Relaying from your 'Allowed IP'
1. Go to the machine you have allowed relaying from, and attempt to 'relay' mail. In the example below I'm attempting to send an email to firstname.lastname@example.org. In the first example we cannot relay, so something has been misconfigured.
2. However this time we CAN relay so our connector is configured properly.
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